Abbie will appreciate the reference to a sweet 80’s tune in the title of this entry. Shout out to Abbie. (insert Arsenio Hall dog chant) While I am doing totally cheesy stuff in the general direction of my stellar sister. I just want to throw out one more thing. I checked Paula Abdul lyrics just now, an interesting exercise. Unfortunately Paula let me down, but another top 40 diva from the past (and present God bless her)came close. Yes, the butterfly lover has some wisdom. Go back and check out “Someday” Abs. It’s not totally on, but it’s close. Gather up some rah-rah girl power sass and strut your valuable self away. Hit the spa.Hit the movie theatre.Hit a passing dumb male…(apologies to all…