I realize this isn’t really fair. You have a job to do.You are charged with taking this little creature and guiding her to becoming a person. A woman. There are wrong ways of doing things, and right ways. Times when shouting is ok and times when whispering is the thing to do. It really does matter that she eat a little of everything on her plate. That she not push her sister off the chair. That it’s not ok to touch the cat there. Mustn’t get in the bath until someone is there. I understand that you need to teach her to do it herself. Help her to know boundaries, to live by a certain moral code. To overcome distractions, avoid temptation. And it’s…