There are so many things that can follow that one little word. You are so special. You did it. It can turn your day around. Or it can not. You suck. You little bitch. You acted like a baby. Rebecca has done it again and made me think about how much I there really is in you. The impact of our words is great, but before them our thoughts carry even more power. I think about things in an argument, about what I’ll say next. There are things that I pull, because as Galit so beautifully said, there are soft places that we must keep sacred. I do it in my work as well, whether I am making a pitch or responding to a question about a…